Good day house, please I need your help with this. I have been dating a guy for 2 years and we have even started planning our marriage, I have invited people, printed cards and both wedding dress before this guy told me that he is married and he didn't think the relationship would go this far. Before he finished his statement, I first landed him a dirty slap before I fell to the ground and started to cry because he I didn't know what else to do, the shame I would face. When he left, I called my best friend and she said I should not worry that he would do that wedding with me whether he likes it or not that she suspects that he is just having cold feet it isn't like he is really married so she said she had the cure of cold feet before marriages that she did the same thing for her hubby. She took me to an imam and that one prayed with me and told me that I had nothing to fear that truly the guy is married but he is not happy because the woman he is living with is not his ordained wife that I am the wife God chose for him. He gave me a black powder in paper and told me to lick it just before I make love to him that once I do that all will be well. As much I want to use the powder, I am scared that it might harm me and the consequences might be worse than I think so I just want to seek other people's opinion on this matter because I have read a lot on things like this back firing. Please I need advice.