Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on how to go about this. I was a victim of r.pe 6 years ago, my aunty's husband forced his way on me and my aunty never believed me, instead she sent me out of her house and called me all sorts of names. I had to live with the shame and trauma. Last year, I finally gave a man a chance, he loves me a lot and we got married early this year in January but since then, I haven't allowed him make love to me since we got married. Now, he has given me ultimatum that he is given me till tonight to let him make love to me or else he would go and satisfy himself outside. I am really hurt by this word, I don't believe my husband would say something like this to me but I can't bring myself to tell him why I find it difficult to make love to him. Please mamas, kindly advise me.