Dear Mamalettes and Papalettes of the house. Please keep my ID hidden. I usually comment on the post advising others in need. I never thought hat one day I would need the same support. I am a foreigner and for the past 8 months I was dating a Igbo man who has been in my country for almost 3 years. He left Nigeria when he was 19 and he is now 33, taking care of his parents and siblings. He never dated another person from my country before. He has been in other different countries before but found things easier in my country and plans to stay and plans to engage in huger business. In the beginning it was all so cute and love everywhere. He is a really sweet person, knows how to treat me well. He has his bad manners but I can take it because I am not perfect too. The one thing I came to notice that bothered me is that when we had arguments he would bring things I did in the past to complain again. 3 weeks ago we had an argument and he did not talk to me for a week. After that we would text and call but he was not making time to see me, saying he had a personal issue that he was solving. On Tuesday I went to his house and we were fine until he brought an issue back again. Yesterday he tells me that we have too different culture and things would not work for us. He says his family are not making things easy for him and one day he might wanna Go back home and I might not want to join him. I was raised knowing that the woman should follow her man anywhere he wants. I feel so hurt being dumped like this. I noticed he was crying in Tuesday when he went to the bathroom. He came back with red eyes. I ask now, he gave his life for his family, is he not allowed to have this one thing for himself? Is it always what the family wants for the Igbo or is it just that he is not sting enough to fight for us? I'm in so much pain. After I left My ex husband I never wanted to date again, 4 years I was alone avoiding man. But he changed me, and now he hurt me even more than my ex husband. Please I need your support family.