Good day mams and paps in the house, please I need your help with this. I met "Ahmed" at my work. About a year later, we were working together, we shared an office and got to be friends. We were both involved in serious relationships and one night we ended up sleeping together. I lived with my ex at the time and he had a girlfriend. So we ended it with our exes and started dating. About two months later, I got pregnant. I decided then that I didn't want to have it so I terminated it. He and I had separated from each other during that time and he did know about it. I told him I didn't want to be in a relationship and I was very confused. I went back to talk to my ex and was still living with him at the time. Then I moved out and Ahmed and I talked and decided to start up again. In December, I got pregnant again. Ahmed told me that he would support me in whatever decision I made. So, I decided I would have the baby. I thought he would decide to marry me but he hasn't asked. We're going to rent a house soon and start living together, our baby is due in August. But I am unsure of him, wouldn't he marry me if he loved me? I don't know. I'm confused and this already happened to him with his ex girlfriend, he wasn't ready to marry her and she got pregnant then lost the baby and then I came along. I am not condoning what I did. I felt awful when I cheated on my ex and can't imagine what his ex must have felt like, after all that she's been through. I am just really confused about whether or not he loves me. I think if he did then he would love me enough to marry me right? Please help, I don't know what to do. I don't know if he's doing this out of wanting to do the right thing or because he loves me.