Hello mamas, please help me! If I keep going on like this I might end up ruining my marriage, my name and everything I stand for. My company just recently employed a set of young graduate trainees to work with us. There's this particular that was posted to my department, he is 28 years old, that's 7 years younger than I am, he's is smart, fine looking and tall. He is the full definition of TDH - Tall, Dark and Handsome. I am a married woman, I have 3 kids but I don't look it because I have a very small stature, If you see me, you would thing I'm 18 years old. The boy has been making advances at me. He uses sweet words on me, complements me every time, in fact he notices the little things I don't expect anyone too because my husband does not even have time for that. The thing now is, I am addicted to him, I want to see him everyday, talk to him, be with him, be around him etc. Every time he greets me like this, I melt walahi, we haven't done anything because he knows I am married and he respects that, but I fear that if I am alone with him I might do and undo. My husband works offshore so he is hardly around. Mamas please advice me, how do I get this guy off my head, sleeping with him would ruin me and everything I stand for, he's way younger than I am but I can't seem to control myself around him. Please has anyone experienced this? How did you cope especially with your husband not always being around?