Good day Mamalette and Papalette. I got married to a man who doesn't know his rights as a man. When we got married about 11 years ago he was living with his siblings about 8 of them and they almost turned me into their slave, there is nothing I did not see or hear from them. then I was 19 years, they said I am not good for their brother and that I can't take care of their brother and my kids. there was a time I was pregnant, they told him that he wasn't the father of my baby. which my so called husband voiced out one night. He doesn't give me money but he always provided for himself,  family and I endured all this just because of my kids. The issue now is that every Sunday my husband must travel to village and he will give one excuse or the other. Every time I will be dreaming of were my husband impregnate a girl and this has been going on for a long time and if I ask him he will deny it. Until yesterday's night d dream now repeated it self again. As usual I want to go to the village, he left. As I was taking my nap the dream now repeated again I now woke up dress up and rush down to the village because is just a 25mins drive from where we stay to d village and we got our own house which is not in his fathers compound. As soon as I got to the gate I pipped through the gate lo and behold I got my husband red handed with a girl I know so much kissing. I now knocked at the gate because he locked it up with key. He asked who was that and I answered as soon as he heard my voice he ask me to wait so that he will bring the key. I rush to the back door and I saw the girl running and I now rushed her and collected the sum of five thousand naira,one nice sandals and some goodies. In fact since that yesterday I have not been self. On my matrimonial bed ooooo my heart is bleeding so much that I feel like stabbing him to death. So sorry for the long write up, pls I need good and matured advice. Don't forget to hide my ID plsssss