Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on this. I need you all to advise me on what to do. I left my husband in February and since then I haven't heard from him all he has done is send messages to me abusing my family and cursing my parents. This is a man I married in 2010, gave him his first child in 2011 and that is when my problem started. He first accused me of hindering his progress that my kids and I are the reason for his downfall. I didn't tell any member of my family about how he abuses me, I kept it in hoping he would change. He finally got a job where they were paying him 600k per month because he is an IT guy but he wasn't contented, he quit the job and traveled to India, I told him not to go but he didn't listen to me He came back a year later and didn't get anything then he went back to where he was going before and they started to pay him half of what they were paying him before he quit then he started accusing me for that again. That one aside, my husband is a chronic cheat. The first maid I had, he slept with her and that one had to run away when she couldn't take it again. The second one too, the same thing, he slept with her and she ran away. When I went to meet the agency that gives me maids for the third time, they said they don't have any maid for me again that until I arrange my home and work on my husband that they won't give me their maids. They told me how the maids reported my husband to them that he was always forcing himself on them. I was so embarrassed, I confronted him and he said he would change but the change was that he started accusing me of cheating on him. I had to convince him that he met me as a V o, how would I want to cheat on him now but he never listened. He got fired from his job again and his elder brother gave him a huge sum of money and my husband went to open an eatery, when he told me I told him Eatery wasn't the right business but I had to support him so I went to learn catering and I became a chef. Last December, my niece came to stay with me and barely 2 weeks later my husband asked me to send her away. I asked him why but he said that he just doesn't want to see her and he started causing troubles with me. I didn't know how to bring myself to send my elder brother's daughter away from my house but I had to for peace to reign. When I was trying to explain to my niece, she told me not to bother lying for my husband that she knows he was the one that asked me to send her away that the only reason my husband is sending her away is because she refused sleeping with him that since she came to my house 2 weeks ago, my husband has been trying to get in her pants. I had to take her to the park to go home. The worst part of the whole thing was that my husband wasn't remorseful of his actions. I am truly sad and I don't know what to do. Now I am living in my sister's house in Ikorodu, although she is not around, the house has been vacant for 10 years so I decided to move in with my kids. My husband has been sending messages insulting me. Please house, what do I do. I have told his family members and they have spoken to him still no change. I even asked him to let us seek help or therapy but he refused. Please help me