Good evening everyone, I need advice, I have a daughter of 5 years, when I got pregnant, her father made attempt of marrying me but he could not pay bride price because of the pregnancy, he took his family to go and see my people, we did introduction. When I delivered, then he was not working, my mum came, she saw the way the situation is, she was very angry to the extend that my mum and my elder sister was laying curses on him all because he was poor then, in few years time, God showed his face and he travelled out of the country and I was living fine to the glory of God. Recently, my dad called me and said my husband should come and pay my bride price, I told him oh fine, he agreed and was happy, he told his family to go and see my parent which they did and before his family went, I called my parents to inform them that this people are coming so that you people will give them date and my parent agreet, some traveled from Lagos while other went from Ado Ekiti to see my parent,wen they came back from d journey, my brother in law to b called me n told me that my parent didn't give them date that they told them to go n see my Uncle from my mother side that he will b d one to give them date,wen I hard wat happened, I was very angry,I called my parent n ask y should my mum brother give my inlaws to b date for my own marriage wen my parent are still alive.all d step my laws are taking to make sure they see my uncle is not working out,d last time dey called my uncle to no wen he will b at home so that they could go see,he told them he will get back to them up till now,my guy said he is no longer interested for now since my mum doest want him to marry me right from d beginning bcos he was poor,I try to explain to him dat he shouldn't take it dat way,d problem now is this,is my,mother not,hapi that her daughter will get married or is she is not suppose to n sorry for d way she treated my guy in d past bcos he was poor then,am not getting young,am early 30's. N I don't want to suffer with a man n wen suppose to enjoy all I endure for,my parent will b d obstacle.I av waited,for 5yrs now n I love him so much. N I don't want to av children with different surname,n to my father,he is not saying,anything bcos he didn't carry his family along.as big as I am,I don't no any of my fathers family member not to,talk,of,being,to,his village.mummies n daddies in d house,pls I need advice