Good day house, please I need your advice on this. My family has been disturbing me about meeting my new guy, but he doesn't want to meet them yet. On top of that, I don't think I'm even ready for him to meet them yet. The problem is, my family has a way of talking down at people that I don't like. I got a divorce about a year ago, and every time I go home, my mother would tell me that my flower is shrinking because I am growing older that I am the one that cannot keep a man because of my bad attitude. She said it to the point that she said that it is going to be a miracle if I can keep a man. I surprised all of them when I started dating this my new guy shortly after my divorce and we have been together for 8 months now so they have all been curious to see the man I am dating and I have already told him that my people have bad mouth so he is also not looking forward to see them. I know that when you love someone, you want them to meet your friends and family and if the person you are seeing really loves you, he should also want to meet the people who are important to you. But I know that he and I both are not ready for him to meet my family right now. Does that mean it's not love? Isn't it okay to just not be "at that point" yet? After all, my feelings may change  and he has said that, if things do become more committed, he would be open to meeting my family then.  And the big question...how do I get my family to understand that I am happy now - and to just be patient?