Good day mums and dads in the house, please I need all your advice since you have all gone through this. I need to know what to do because my boyfriend is running from marriage and we have been dating for 10 months. I know some of you would say that is okay but it is not because no man has ever asked me out and I am 35 except him. Although he does not have a job yet and I am the one practically feeding him, I am okay with it. I don't mind even raising the family myself, I just don;t want to be alone and I want him to marry me early so that I can give birth before my eggs no longer function. I have told my mother about him and my mother has started planning for an introduction ceremony with family members even though he is not aware of this. I don't want him to know because if I tell him he might not want to have anything to do with me because he is scared of marriage because he feels he has not achieved anything yet and he is 40. His mom has been begging me to take a bold step and I have informed her of the introduction with my parents and she agreed. In fact, she is the one that told me not to inform him yet so that he would run away. I have scheduled the introduction date for June 10, I just need to know the right way to bring my man to my marriage without him suspecting anything. Thank you