So, I'm going to cut this as short as possible. I met this guy who was quite a bit older than me and we hit it off immediately. We weren't sure if we wanted to be in a relationship because of the age gap (14 years, I'm in my early 20s) so none of us really brought it up seriously and we were both skirting around the issue. I did talk about it once, briefly, but I wasn't sure either so we dropped it. We kept seeing each other, went out on a date and he let me sleep over. We've shared some pretty intimate details about ourselves and it seems like this situation is getting dangerously close to a real relationship. I think it's safe to say that any other girl in my situation would have probably felt the same way. So, I asked him and this time he got angry. He said he didn't want anything more but at that point, I'd been honest with myself about the fact that I really liked him anyway, so I didn't pressure him because I enjoyed the time we spent together... and yes, I was willing to take that risk even though he'd said that he wasn't interested in anything more. Told him that I didn't usually do this and that I was afraid I was going to get too attached that I just wanted to try the friend with benefits thing. He got mad at that too and said he didn't want to have s.x with me anymore. So now I'm confused. He doesn't want a relationship and doesn't want the friends with benefit either. He blocked me after we had that discussion. Please advise me because I am confused
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