Hello house, thank you all so much for all the advice you have been giving. I have a serious issue and it is about my husband. We just got married 2 months ago but we have known each other for 3 years and in this 3 years, my husband never bothered to mention to me that he has a kid with another woman who is now 6 years old until now. He told me last night around 12:00am that he is sorry that he didn't tell me all this while that he has a son with another woman. He said he never knew the boy existed until last year and that then, we were making plans for our wedding and he didn't think it was the right time for me to know then that if I had known then, I might have called off the wedding because he knows how much I hate baby mama drama. He said the thing now is that he wants to be a big part of his son's life and because the mother is trying to get a man of her own as well, she has offered to allow him have custody of their son and he has accepted behind my back o, to bring the child home. I told him no, that I won't allow him bring any child that I didn't know off into the house and he said that if I don't want him in the house that he would move out for me. Please mamas, did I do any wrong by telling him I couldn't have his son in our home at the early stage of our marriage?
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