I have known my husband for 10yrs now and we've been married for 7yrs, we have never had any problems at all we have been blessed with 3children. But the thing now is this, there was this his ex girlfriend that he was supposed to marry, his parents loved her so much cos they are from same village plus his mum and her mum were childhood friends. He said he had resolved on marrying her but all of these changed when he met me and although according to him he said he never wanted anything serious with me but as our relationship grew he noticed am his dream girl and so he called off his engagement with his fiance it wasn't easy especially with the fact that am not from his village. He went through alot before they accepted me and truly speaking I haven't had any fracas with my in-laws in fact they are the best in-laws. This same ex girlfriend of my husband is not married yet and has been disturbing my husband to get her a job in the state we reside please note she resides in a different state and she doesn't have any relative or friend in the state we are, when my husband told me about it I told him am not in support of her coming to where I am because I have come across their chats severally where she ask my husband for money, sometime he'll send to her and sometimes he'll not send, I have never confronted him on why he's sending money to her or why he's still communicating with her since he never told me about it and to also make me know more about their relationship. Please mamallet, advice me I hope am not taking it to far? I told him its not possible, he shouldn't even try it because I wouldn't want to listen to any story that touches the heart in the future. Please take note: God bears me witness, I didn't snatch him from her. He didn't tell me about his relationship or engagement with anyone, he asked me to marry him after 3months of our friendship in which I didn't give him any answer, after 4months of our relationship he traveled home to see his parents and to discuss his intention of not marrying her again. In all of this, I didn't know what was going on, he only told me he was traveling, he even made them accept me before telling me what was really happening. It was after he came back from his journey that he sat me down to ask me again in I will marry him that he's been asking me this question that he wants answer from me and I said yes I will. Then he narrated he whole ordeal to me, I swear by my marriage that my response to him that day was that he shouldn't go against his parents wish and that he has known the girl before I and also his parents wouldn't lead him to what will harm him that he should go ahead with her. After hearing what I said he started shedding tears that he just realised I didn't love him that how can I say he should go back to her and I told him its because I really did love him that's why I want the best for him. But he never accepted even his mum came around that period that I should come and know her but I never went, I told him I won't be the source of another woman's unhappiness but still, he never left me alone. There was a night he came knocking at my door very late in the night he said he couldn't sleep that he's begging me to love him jealously and this is a man I love so much and by this time all communication had stopped with her. So I accepted his marriage proposal. Please mamallet and papallet , I didn't snatch him from anybody he walked out of the relationship on his own accord without my knowledge. Thank you