Mamalettes how will you handle this? When my Husband and I realized I was pregnant and still nursing a baby, we decided to bring somebody to help. He ended up bringing his Nephew of about 17 years. My daughter was barely 7 Months then. I didn't know that will be the beginning of my nightmare. I made sure he was enrolled in School but as it is, he doesn't help out at all. I practically do everything and my Husband thinks it's okay. I have caught him mast..bating pants down and I have a daughter, my husband waves his hand at the issue. One morning, he had his breakfast. It's a tradition that tea cups are washed and kept immediately after tea to prevent breakage. He drank tea as usual and I asked him to rinse the Cup before going to School and my Husband echoed back, leave the Cup and go to School. Since then, he leaves his teacup for me to wash. I ve lost my Pregnancy due to stress. This morning, he left to School without telling me, I rushed to his School to give him his food and told my Husband that I am not happy and I ll address it when he comes back. My Husband called me on the phone to justify why he didn't inform me before leaving for School asking me to leave his Nephew alone. I got furious. I take care of his needs, treat him as my own but can't reprimand him if he does wrong? Mama's, what do I do? I sweep, do the dishes, Cook, take care of my Baby, and I work. What can I do?