How I dealt with my abusive cheat of a husband

Ask Mamalette Category: Marriage & Relationships How I dealt with my abusive cheat of a husband
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Hello house, may we never suffer any illness that would cannot be cured o! I have been married for 16 years but 14 years of my marriage has been filled with sadness and bitterness because I married an abusive cheat as a husband. My husband would beat me, beat me till I could not get up and he would leave me lying helpless on the floor without showing any form of remorse. Everybody told me to live him that if I didn't he will kill me and marry another wife before they even bury my dead body because he was that bad but I refused, I kept staying with him because of my 3 beautiful children, I continued enduring but my heart wasn't. I suffered high blood pressure because all I got was beating and I kept thinking of where I went wrong for this man to treat me this way to the point that when he makes love to me, it is as if he is rap**g me but I endured still. When my heart started failing me and I was being passed from hospital to hospital, my best friend whose mum also suffered hypertension introduced me to one drug that she claimed cured her mother naturally but I couldn't afford it still, the money was a bit much then that I had to beg from family and friends to get the money to buy the drug and even while I was doing all this, my hubby never bothered, he didn't even know I was sick. I bought the drug and I used it as they instructed and I was healed.  Today, that my hubby is now the most caring man I know. The truth is, after I got cured of hypertension, I started taking care of myself and worrying about my children only. I forgot totally that I had a husband, after ignoring him and living happy on my own for some months, he came crawling back, begging me to forgive him and I did. God touched him and he has changed because I didn't give up on him, now he adores me, he doesn't even let me lift a finger in the house. Finally, I dealt with my hubby by 1. taking care of myself because this my life is only 1. 2. I paid more attention to my children that gave me joy and forgot totally about the man that brought me pain and sorrow. 3. I prayed consistently and trusted God to let his will be done. 4. I didn't give up on him. 5. I forgave him. This worked for me, I pray he works for all the mamas who are stuck with cheating husbands. May God restore your homes and marriages for good.

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