Good day mamas and papas in the house. Please I need your help urgently on how to handle this issue. The thing is I just got a new job and the woman I am working with is very nice although she is a young woman, she is getting married in a few months time I just received her wedding invitation card, I checked who she was getting married too and I realized that she was marrying y ex. The first man I ever made love too. We had to break up after he got admission to study abroad and we lost contact till now. He is the only man I have ever loved. I don't know if it is a good idea for me to attend this wedding or not because I know that if he sees me he might want to be with me again and I would want to be with him as well. Also, I don't know if it is okay to tell my boss that I have dated her man before. I fear that telling her might change how she feels about me or lead to me loosing my job. Please house, what should I do?