Good day house,  Please I am confused and worried about something. I got married last year and just had my first baby, my hubby is a high ranked navy officer and have just being transferred to another state. Now he has decided that I stay back in Lagos while he goes and then visits. But the thing is that I am scared, I am young and I have never lived on my own not to talk of being responsible for our child alone. I know other officers wives are doing it. But I do not know anyone or any place in Lagos. I often feel like I am alone when I am here and now he won't even be here with me. And the worst is I am not working yet, so nothing to keep me busy. I feel like I am gonna look like a single mother. I don't want to live apart from my hubby but he keeps saying he can't take his family along and this posting may last long. Pls what do I do? How do I cope with this and raising a child alone. Pls I need ur advices