Good evening ma. Please help me post. I have a childhood girlfriend who is not married but have a baby for her boyfriend. I'm married and so I feel bad she is not yet married. When she started dating this guy, I was happy and hoping they would be married. Things are not going on well with her. She complained about the guy but I always encourage her because I don't want it to look like I'm married but don't want her to marry. First I believe the guy was good but I realized he was just trying to exploit my girlfriend. I created a fake facebook account and sent him a friend request which he accepted. I told him I'm single and schooling in Ghana. He started asking me out and even requested for my nude pictures. I managed to get him some from the net and he later started asking for chat sex but I declined. In short, he promised to marry me and spoke ill about my girlfriend. I was shocked. I don't know what to do so that my girlfriend will not think I don't want her to be happy. My husband advised that I shouldn't tell my girlfriend because of experience. But I feel like telling her so that she can advise herself but my husband also think otherwise. Playing note, she is not getting younger. We are both in our thirties. Because of the baby, her dad said she should endure but he doesn't know that the guy is such a womanizer to the extent that he want to chat fuck a "stranger " (me). Please advise me on what to do.