Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on how to go about this. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have been TTC since then. My wife is a very good woman, in fact I was the one that deflowered her after marriage so I know it's not her fault that we are still TTC and so, I never try to do anything to make her feel that way. The problem now is that there is this lady that I dated for 6 years but we broke up after I found out that she slept with another man. I couldn't take it so I left her, she begged and begged but I had to move on. The problem now is that I ran into her at the filling station and I saw a boy with her, looked like a 6 year old, the exact same time I broke up with her 6 years ago and he looked like my carbon copy. I didn't see a ring on her finger so I know that she has not remarried and so I suspect that the child is mine because she was in so much hurry to leave me at the station sef. I want to ask for a paternity test, but Ii don't know how my wife will feel about it. I haven't told my wife anything yet and I no longer have my ex's number but I know I can get her, I just need to know the proper steps to take.