Hello house, please I need help on how to go about this. I have been staying together with this woman because we have an 8 year old daughter together. She 28 while I am 29 but our situation has gone from bad to intolerable. She interrupts me at work all the time, and I had to tell my admin assistant to just put her into voicemail. My assistant thinks my wife is crazy, She had to drop out of school when she got pregnant and she never bothered to go back. I promised to pay for her fees and help her study for exams and all that but she refused saying her head cannot carry any book again and me I hate the fact that she is a secondary school dropout because it is really affecting her, she behaves like an illiterate, I can't even take her out in public or to office functions because she would not fit in. This is also one of the reasons why I haven't married her legally because I am not sure I want to spend the rest of my life with her as she is not well cultured. We haven't made love in  years, and I don't even find her attractive enough to want to make love to her. She is too local for my liking, there was a day she came to my office wearing iro and buba and she was shouting at the reception because they mentioned to her that I was in a meeting and I couldn't see her then. She embarrassed me thoroughly that day because even my junior colleagues were laughing hard at me. I never wanted my daughter to grow up in a broken home. I grew up with a lot of kids in secondary school who had divorced parents, and they always seemed to have more issues, especially the girls. But now it looks like that's what I'll offer my daughter. Please I need advice on how to go about this. Thank you.