I need mamas advice to save my relationship. I got married last year, and ever since my husband always (gives me head) sucks my private part, & urging/pleading that I suck his thing too, but I don't like it, it looks irritating to me, although I enjoy it when he gives it to me the way he does, despite the enjoyment, I still stop him from sucking me.
For the past 2 months now, he refused to make love to me, I made move, but he said I should suck his thing as pre-condition for our love making. I now remembered that he once told me about his ex during our courtship that he love the way she sucks him, but didn't marry her because her family were involved in cultism. Can I suspect he's doing it outside? Because he cannot do without making love for 2 weeks except when I travel. I searched his phone there weren't strange conversion. He behaves very well, but come home 2-3 hours late now after office work. How can I handle the situation?