Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I have a serious problem that I cannot tell anyone because people would blame ma and say that I brought all this upon myself. The thing is my husband and I courted for 8 months before getting married last year February, all through this period, I didn't see any atom of cigarette with him, he acted like a good christian, took me to his church, he was even in the sanctuary department then so I felt so safe in hands. Few months after marriage, I realized my husband was a chronic smoker and alchoholic. In a day if my husband does not drink, that day is not complete. I reported him to his sister and she said I should have known since now that her brother has been trying to quit smoking and drinking for a while now to no avail that that is why he even joined work unit in church but it is not even helping because the last time he went to church was about a year ago. The worst part of the whole thing is that he smokes in the presence of our baby, I tell him to take it out but he ignores me. Every time we go to parties, I always end up going home alone because my husband would wait till they start packing chairs at the wedding. Now I am afraid he can't control himself with cigarette or alcohol again. I'm already planning on meeting our Pastor to intervene. I can't start dealing with this issue again, especially when there are kids involved this time. Please mamas who have had husbands like mine, how can I make him stop this bad habit?