How can I make him love me?

Good morning please I need advice. I got pregnant for a friend and I have been warned against termination of pregnancy, though I later fell in love with this guy. At the early stage, he told me to get rid of the pregnancy but now he has accepted it and promised to take care of I and the baby but he won't marry me. please is there anyway I can make this guy love me? I don't want what happened to me to happen to my child I want I and the father to bring up this child together.