Good day Mamalettes, please I seriously need your advice on this; I am a girl of 23 years old who has a baby girl of 4 years at hand. I am into two serious relationships, one was single and the other man was married with five kids but promised making me the second wife. They both love and cared for me so much but fortunately my pastor asked me to move out of my family house were I live with my child because of the bad dreams I do have and I move to my single guy house, explained things to him and he accepted me but the other married man thought I was staying with my big sister. Since then, I have been living with my single guy we do fight always and anytime this starts, the next thing he will do is to beat me and throw my luggage out of his room and ask me to leave but still yet I will come back the next day to beg him and he will accept me back. My problem now is can I marry such guy that can't accept me with my problem cos he do says his tired of living wit me nd since we been dating, av not for once caught him wit anoda lady or I shld go for d married man dat promise getting an apartment for me but I don't want him to do bcos I don't think I can marry him cos of d wife nd children but I love him more than d single guy cos he understand me easily Dan him.... Pls what should I do?