I am feeling like I might have made a terrible mistake now. Maybe I went too far. I feel horrible right now because I am 34 and I am single with no man to call my own and all my siblings are already married and giving birth now. I was in a relationship for 9 years and when the guy finally proposed everyone was happy for me, then I was 29, we did our introduction and we started planning our wedding and just a month to our wedding, my fiance confessed to me that he had impregnated another woman and he didn't want to start a marriage with me and keep me in the dark. He said it was a one time thing that he was drunk and it didn't mean to happen that the girl meant nothing to him. He said he was not even sure the baby was his because the girl was a club girl. I was hurt and I told him the marriage would be on hold till the girl delivers and if the child is his then I would end the whole thing finally because I didn't want to be tangled in any baby mama drama. The DNA result proved that my fiance was the father of the baby and I canceled the whole marriage even though my parents told me to take time before making my decision. I ended it and he begged me for a while but after a year, I heard the girl had moved in with him and he got married to her eventually 2 years ago. Since I canceled my marriage, I haven't met any man to marry me, all the guys I have been meeting, once I tell them I nearly got married, they would run like I have HIV. I am really frustrated, I feel like canceling my marriage was wrong because if I didn't cancel it, I would be married by now. Please mamas, kindly advise me.