When should i break no contact?

Ask Mamalette When should i break no contact?
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 3 months ago

Good day house, I need advice. So a week and half ago I told my ex gf that I loved her and that I hope she has a good life but I am not going to talk to her because I need to move on with my life. And I also told her that I hope she's happy with her new guy. We have been broken up for almost 3 months and I was friends with her after being broken up for about 6 weeks until I walked in on her and another guy. When I was telling her all these nice things, she was completely annoyed and wanted to get off the phone and told me yeah right you're going to talk to me. So I started keeping to myself and she texted/called me once everyday or multiple times a day. Everyday it is about something different, such as "are you going to eat ofada?" or just calls with no messages left. Last night she called me at 3 in the morning and then proceeded to call me 5 or 6 times with 4 text messages. all this was about this time was about her ofada. she texted me a picture of the food and asked me if I was going to take care of it and then threatened me okay that's it I'm going to stop calling you. I didn't respond. It has only been a week and a half and she has not stopped contacting me. I honestly miss her, but I really think this is the best way for me to move on with my life and maybe way later in life i might be able to talk to her again. What does she want out of me? She told me she didn't want to hang out with me, and yet she asked me to but i didn't respond. She told me she is completely over me and likes this new guy and doesn't want to talk to me because it will make him jealous but she tries to contact me everyday. She uses blocked calls and everything. We were together for 4 years, does she miss me? She has a really stubborn attitude and I just don't understand why she feels the need to contact me when she is with her new guy. I dont want to be led on again like i did when i was her as a "friend"(even though we acted the same), so i am not contacting her. My question is, when should i break no contact? I read at different places i have to for about a month. Should i only break it when she tries to apologize to me or tell me she wants to get back together? I wouldnt let her get back with me so easily if i even want to, but I just want some opinions on it.

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