Good day mamalettes and papalettes, please help sister o. A banker male friend of mine(platonic friendship) who recently hooked me up with a matured, nice, caring, loving single christian male friend of his for relationship that would lead to marriage is begging me to leave his friend for him that he's so much in love with me that if I don't he will make sure he wounds me before my marriage with his friend. This was the person who initially told me that he would have loved to marry me if not that he has engaged someone else before now and willingly asked me if he could match make me with a mature friend of his who is seriously looking for for a wife and not a girlfriend. Even, when I said I don't believe in matching making stuff, he virtually pleaded with me on daily basis for 2months to give his friend a trial that he had since spoken to him about me which I eventually did about a month now and I realise the man is everything a woman wants in a man. We get along so quickly, as if we have known for years. He tells the truth all the time, fears God and ready to wait for me till our wedding night before disflowering me, cos am still a virgin by the Grace of God and in my late 30s. The issue is that, my man keeps thanking his friend(my male banker friend) for hooking me up with him that I am the dream of every man in marriage. My man keeps telling his friend of those wonderful virteous wife qualities he discovered in me, always praising me to his friend and I think all these is making his friend to envy our relationship and to develop love and affection for me the more. This banker friend of mine would always tell me their (both my man and him) discussion whenever we see, I will always smile and say to God be the Glory. Not until yesterday, when I ran into him at an eatry where I went to have lunch during lunch breaktime at work. Then he started telling me of how he broke up with his fiancee of 2yrs after he caught her cheating on him last week and that he has always secretly fallen in love with me, my kind of person for long and would loved to ask me for my hand in marriage long before now if not for the lady he had in his life. He said he's now ready to fight for my love and what rightfully belong to him which is me. I don't know what to do now. 1) I feel like asking my man to stop feeding this his friend with information about our relationship particularly about me, but won't it look as if I want to destroy the friendship between them and moreso that he's the one God used to connect us.2) Should I tell my man what his friend threatened or I should handle it without involving him? 3) when I asked him what he meant by him injuring me before my marriage to his friend, he said he would make sure he has a taste of me before his friend on our wedding night. I am scared of that statement and I feel like telling my man but what if he denies saying it, as have got no evidence. Please advice me, am confused right now and I feel like involving my man and the police. Thanks