Good day house, please I need all your advice because I don't know how to go about this. I am a singe mom and I have been jumping from man to man until recently when I met my fiance. This man is everything I want in a man. H loves me a lot and he cares a lot for me. he just proposed marriage to me but he said that he would marry me on one condition and the condition is that I let the father of my child train the child because he wouldn't. He said my son can come and stay with us on weekends or holidays o but that she can't live with us. I understand where he is coming from because things are hard these days and I wouldn't want him to suffer just because he married me. My child is 10 years old now, I have tried, I think her father too should take over from where I stopped for another 10 years as well after all he is also married, his wife should help him out too. The problem I am having now is how to explain to my son that I can't take him into my new marriage. Please mamas, I need help here.