I approached my hubby now he is using it against me

Ask Mamalette I approached my hubby now he is using it against me
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 4 days ago

Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your advice. My husband and I were first friends before lovers. He never even thought that I would agree to date him because he always thought I was out of his league but he was so sweet and kind to me that I  fell deeply in love with him. I waited for him to ask me out but he never did, I waited for 3 years but he didn't yet he kept killing me with niceness and love. I had to ask him out myself when I saw that time was going. I asked him to have me as his wife and he said yes and that was it and today we are married. We have been married for 6 years now with 2 kids, a boy and a girl. The problem I am having now is that my husband is very shy. He is not an outgoing person and he feels bad every time he sees me talking to men. The saddest part of it all is that my hubby always assumes that every man I am talking to or playing with, I am asking him out. He stops me from talking to men, I don't have male friends and my colleagues can't even give me a call when I am home because my hubby won't let me pick it up. Please, I would like to know, was it bad of me to have approached my hubby? What can I do to make him trust me again. PS. I have never cheated on my husband neither have I ever thought of it.   

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