Hello house, I would like to hear some insight on my problem. I was in a really bad marriage for 20 years and have 4 great kids from that marriage. After much soul searching I moved out and got a divorce. A year later I met a wonderful man who I love very much. He is 8 years younger than me never married and no kids ( he was 32 I was 40 when we met) a year after we met we decided to move in together, but before that even happened I was shocked to find out at 41 years old I was pregnant. He was very happy and so was I and if it was going to happen that was the Right time...I wasn't getting any younger. We didn't get married right away because honestly I didn't want another marriage this way, like when I was 20 ! He didn't ask anyway. Well we have been together 5 years now and our daughter is 3. I brought up the subject a year ago or so, and his reasoning was he has no money for a ring. I really could care less about an expensive ring. I dropped the subject but its been another year. I have brought up the subject and how important it is to me. He says he wants to get married but there's always a financial reason why he hasn't asked. Am I I'm denial here? I'm thinking he just isn't sure, and if that's the case it will end our relationship because I have a real problem with this. Any advice please!!!