I will be 35 by September, I got married in 2013 and had a son but had to drag my husband to court for divorce due to some irreconcilable differences of which verbal, emotional and financial abuse was among. He threw out me and my son and hasn't been responsible for the upkeep of the boy. To cut the long story short, Case still in court since last year due to series of adjournment and his unavailability in court most times. Now the reason for coming to seek ur advice is this: there's this guy that we have been friends since 2010 (just casual), 2013 we both got married to our different partners. He had problems with his mother-in-law and she came and took his wife away. I tried to give him the necessary psychological support because it really affected him so much. When I started having problem in my marriage he stood by me too and by then he was already coming out of his problem. Just to cut the long story short we started dating and I have gotten so fond of him. Please mamalettes and paplettes I want to ask if I'm doing the right thing. Thanks