Good day house, please I need advice. I have a childhood friend that I am considering cutting off. I love her so very much and she has shown me a lot of love. She has done some very selfish things over the 20 years that I have looked the other way to because quite frankly the good outweighed the bad. Am I being judgmental? I don't like how she is using men for money. I don't like how she flirts with married men all the time. I don't like how she tells me I'm a hypochondriac when I have health anxiety and call her for support.  I don't like how she calls me talks a mile a minute about whats going on in her life, I get about 2 min in and she has to go. I want more depth to our friendship. But I will have to say she would always be there for me and since I have no kids, she told me I"m part of her family and will be there for me in older years together. I think I"m being too judgemental. But isn't it our right to have opinions?