Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need advice here. Many years ago, I had a child out of wedlock, I was just in SS2 then and my parents sent me out of the house when they found out I was pregnant. I didn't have any money or anyone so I could not terminate the pregnancy. I had to go go and meet one of my big aunties that has been trying to conceive for years, I told her what my parents did to me and she took me in, she and her husband took good care of me, they tried to take me back to my parents but my parents didn't allow me still, they said I was a shame to them and they didn't want to be associated with me. My aunty took care of me till I had my baby and I gave my baby to her and her husband. I told them I wanted my life back and they made me promise not to come back for my kid because they are based in Abuja while my parents and I stay in Ilorin. I went back to my parents and lied to them that the baby died while I was giving birth to him and they believed me and took me back in. it's been 16 years since the birth of my child and I haven't had any man come my way to ask for my hand in marriage and I am now 34 years old, I am lonely and I have a good job. My parents are no more and I am bored and lonely, I want someone to call my own, I need a companion in the house, I need someone that would make me feel alive again. I want to go back to ask for my child, I told my very good friend about it and she told me not to try it but I feel like my child deserves to know that I am her mother. Please house, advise me on this. I need to know how to handle this? If I do this would I be a bad person?