Admin pls post this before I make a wrong choice. I'm 23 years old and I've been going out with this guy for 2yrs now, before I agreed to go out with him, he looked serious and goal driven and sweet. The first year into our relationship, he had serious issues at work because of a promotion that was due him so that year I was just there, wasn't happy but I couldn't complain because his health was failing because of the pressure and stress he is 29 by the way. This year all thanks to God the promotion came and he was to resume his new office in a new town, everybody was super happy and grateful to God, his family was very excited, he was earning 30,000 before and 200,000 after the promotion. My problem now is this guy is not responsible, now after the promotion I found out he has zero goals, no values whenever I asked him before now he usually covers up with his job issues, now there is no issue on ground he is basically living for that job. I even advised him to start applying in other companies as this promotion will boost his CV , he doesn't listen . My problem now is our relationship hasn't improved over the years, I have been the very strong one telling him it will be well and all, now I'm seeing how he doesn't care for me like I do him, he has never asked wat my goals are or anything, doesn't take family responsibilities, his mum and sisters are all complaining also. His mum called me one day and poured her heart all out that he's not showing care for anybody at home and she hopes it's not like that with me.. I didn't tell her anything from me I just begged her to be patient because he doesn't even care for God anymore, he stopped paying his tithe with the excuse of having debts to pay, goes to church once in a blue moon because according to him, Sundays the only free days he has. I have. Now, he's started talking marriage though I usually pretend I didn't hear, somewhere I feel i will be making a big mistake marrying him , I do not want a situation where my children will beg for their father's love and attention, I grew up without a father's attention and it's not a sweet experience. . Pls Mamalettes advise me on what to do before I make the biggest mistake ever!