Hello mamas and papas in the house. Please I need your advice here. So I have a best guy friend (Dele). we have been friends for about 6 months. Dele is married while I am still single but in a serious relationship as well. Dele and his wife have been having problems ever since we met. he works offshore, and just last month she moved out to her parent's place. When he came back and didn't meet her at home, and he was very h.rny because they don't allow them to make love on the rig. He automatically took her absence has a 'hall pass' to make love with another woman and do anything he wants to this past weekend. He called me and said he wanted us to go out last night with some friends, and I also had a rough night with my guy and I was feeling very rejected and upset so I agreed to go with him to cool off my head. Dele wasnt having any luck meeting anyone to take home, so in my 'drunken state' i suggested we hook up since we both have needs and we are good friends. i am so disappointed in myself for even bringing it up. i do not believe in affairs and i felt like a slut honestly for even suggesting it. he turned me down because he doesn't want to mess up our friendship. i didn't know whether to feel respected or rejected. i know now it was out of respect for me and our friendship, but i feel horrible. i told him it didn't mean anything other than what it was, and he got annoyed, told me he doesn't want to talk about it and pretended it didn't happen. I am confused, my action last night would have put a stain on our friendship I haven't heard from him since then and he isn't picking my calls. Please mamas, what should I do? Should I go over to his place to apologize again?