Good evening mama's and papas pls help me I have been married for 12 years with 3 kids, I work. Last year I was planning on travelling to Dubai to buy children things for sales and I told my hubby and he refused he said if I insist of travelling I will write an undertaking that if I should travel to Dubai for Christmas market our marriage ends, and he went on to warn my elder sister that travels abroad to buy goods for sale, that he knows she is the one that wants to take me abroad and she should not try it, according to my sister he said a lot and it caused trouble between her and her husband. And I noticed if I come back from work a little late like 30 minutes past 4 he will disgrace me in the compound and start calling me names like prostitute and the disgrace was too much and I called for family meeting and he was asked why he was calling me prostitute and he said its because I am always on my phone and this same man knows I run my tribal page online, and he was asked to apologies his brother faulted him and he apologized and this is a man that disvirgined me. And we reconciled not up to two weeks so he said he has dropped is passport on the alter of a cathedral he visited that he wants to travel out by all means for visitation and I asked him so you mean travelling abroad is your biggest problem and he said yesooo, and I told him my tribal day in UK is coming up and they have said they will send me and invitation but I don't think I have the financial capacity as I am about starting my animal farm, and we ended it there, today I got an invitation for the event by August and I told him, and as soon as I told him he was not happy and he said as you are traveling just know am travelling also, and he said its not good for a married woman to be travelling any how, and the event is not useful the way he was behaving I smell jealousy ,and I told him he is jealous and insecure and he got annoyed and said his ex is in UK, and another in US they have promised to send him invitation but he refused, and all through this evening he has started problem looking for faults and quarrels, plus help me mama am confused I feel my husband is in competition with me, am tired of the marriage but because of my kids I don't want divorce, because I passed through a lot while growing up because my mum and Dad was separated, in all of this I was pursuing a business and it was not working so I went to mom for deliverance I did 3 days dry towards the third day I got a dream and in the dream someone was asking me that "madam do you know who your testimony killer is? And the person said Dec 5th and that was the only dream I got all through that deliverance. Mama's and papas plus help me I need wisdom.