Good day all, please I need advice on this I met a guy 2014 and we started dating so during that time I made myself clear to him that I am seeking admission for my masters in abroad he said no problem that he equally have the intention of going there. So that same year my visa came out but he pleaded I should not go now till after the marriage so I stayed back, we did all the traditional things we went for court marriage without my parents notice so we fixed the date for wedding but the guy kept shifting it, so on one faithful day his ex called me and told me that she is aware of the marriage that she had a child for him in 2012 I was shocked because he has never told me about it when I asked him he said nothing like that he sworn with his life that nothing like that, the girl told me hope I know I am not from the state let alone the village that she will fight me with everything, so I told my hubby that him and the child will go for DNA test he said okay so we concluded when the test will be carried out, 4 days for d he said d lab they are going is very expensive I told him I will give him 100k to support he said that I should go to Lagos he sent me address and the doctor's number that he will 75k for the kit I told him no because I am a medical lab scientist I know everything about it, along the process I got another visa I told him again he said I should not go I just have to make up my mind to go and when I was going I told him I was pregnant so i left for my masters, 5 months later he went to marry one girl of their town not d ex without my notice or my parents notice so when i gave birth i called him he didn't say anything he never called me when d child was 1 year i called him that they is some document i need to sign he said anything i like i should write there but what he know is that when d child is big he must come back to him that their children doesn't stay outside i was mad,i told him that for me to give d child to him in future i will give d child to Canadian government,what will do because i know d guy will come for d child but i will rather give d child out.
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