I got married in 2014 to a caring, loving and God fearing man but before then I have different suitors seeking for my hand in marriage, there's this particular man who is from my home town, the parents are rich and my mum sworn I most marry him,with time I noticed that this guy in question is too pompous, because then I was in Owerri and his based in Lagos so we only communicate through calls, at times when he calls he will start asking me if I have hot legs? Hope I party? Hope I can dance in public? And many more, when I made my investigations and I found out that his problems where women, I became scared because I never grow up with my dad (he got separated from my mum after my birth), so I was hoping to marry a man who will love and take care of me, who I will spend the rest of my life with after seeing what my mum past through. When I told my mom about the guys character she said there's nothing wrong with it that I can change him when I got married to him and for the fact that the guy is from my town, the parents is rich and his is the first son of the family makes him the perfect husband for me, when I told a friend about it she advice me to be careful that marriage is forever thing, that money isn't everything, I had to tell this guy that am not interested in his proposal,,,after 3 months I met my husband,at first I never liked him because his 10 years older than me, but when time goes on I find out that he's so caring, and God fearing, he doesn't have any single problem any body's wish is his command, my mum doesn't like him because his from the neighbouring town and he hasn't build his own house yet in the village. Ever since I got married to him my mum has been insulting me indirectly, comparing me With my cousins and friends who got married from my town, whose husband's has built houses in the village and driven different cars.. Now am getting tired of the insults, when ever she says all this things my heart boil and am beginning to regret my marriage (that I should have married the other guy so that my mum will be happy) please what do I do? I have a son. Please note that my husband is not a poor man, he feeds well, cloth me well paying for 3 bedroom flat and a car. But the problem is that he's not from my town, he hasn't build his own house in the village, he doesn't stay in Abuja rather Asaba here and that he's ten years older than me