Mothers are heroes all over the world. There is so much that goes into been called a mother. It is a status that comes with a lot of prestige. Mothers are selfless human beings that should be worshiped like a small god. Motherhood is not over exaggerate as some people claims, it is an experience that is not explainable unless you experience it yourself. It is such a unique role that no one can ever take your place.
From the conception of the pregnancy, few women are lucky to have a hassle free pregnancy. I had a friend that was admitted at the hospital for the first three months of her pregnancy. She was really sick that she was practically bed ridden and you will have some women that they won't feel a thing when pregnant, some are lucky like that.
My sister-in-law was the spitting one, she spat out saliva from the conception of her till she delivered her baby. And there are so many other things that pregnancy does to women. Pregnancy changes a woman's body completely from what she knows to what she does not know anymore. You carry a child in your stomach for nine whole months and the child comes out not to be of the same sex as you and also does not have any resemblance of you. Is that fair?
I had my two boys through a caesarean section so you can imagine what my stomach looks like now, and the boys look nothing like me. The first boy was a splitting image of his father, while the second boy had a resemblance of one of his father's uncle that even me have never met. He stays abroad and has been living there for over ten years. How can you not look like me that carried you for such a long time, we shared the same food, do everything together and you went ahead to look like one
How can you not look like me that carried you for such a long time, we shared the same food, do everything together and you went ahead to look like one randomUncle. How do I get compensated for all my effort to bring them forth into this world. Whenever I complain about how cheated I felt, my husband always dismiss it. I told him to place a football under his shirt for a whole day and he complained he can't breathe properly. I made him realize that's how a pregnant woman feels for a period of 9month.
In my friend's case, she is dark in complexion while her husband is light skinned. She had two boys and they both had a striking resemblance of their dad. They are just as fair skinned as their dad, no outsiders believe she is the mother of those boys, they look nothing like her. I just think it's not fair when I look at my zebra crossing stretch mark stomach and the boys that came out of it that look nothing like me. Is not fair!
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