Hello house, kindly advise me here. I’m 32, she’s 28, and she’s in a relationship of 10 years with a 56 year old man. She moved to the street I live in 18 months ago, we didn’t know each other before then. She would always wave as I passed and one day I stopped to talk to her, just a quick “hi” etc. Anyway to cut the long story short, she added me on Facebook. I knew I liked her straight away, and I knew she was with someone. She would message me often and sometimes I would ignore her, because I didn’t want to fall for her. She wouldn’t quit. She kept coming back time and time again, even when I would basically tell her to f*ck off, because I had a feeling this would end up happening and was trying to avoid it. Anyway, we’ve spent a lot of time together and shared everything, eventually I told her I’m in love with her (I’m trying to keep this short so I’m leaving a lot out) she says she feels the same. We aren’t having an affair, we haven’t even kissed. I hold her a lot and having her in my arms is the best feeling ever, but then I have to hand her back to a guy who, personally, I don’t think it can work with and who doesn’t treat her all that nicely. She is absolutely lovely and he’s a manipulative, controlling, possessive old goat. How long do I give this? Will she ever leave him? They are kinda having a lot of arguments these days because he knows how she feels but she won’t leave him, why not? They’re not married, no kids involved etc. I’m starting to feel like she won’t ever leave him. Please I would appreciate any advice

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