I met a man a few months ago and we became close. During the our first date he did not tell me he was married. It wasn’t until the second date that he told me he was married. I got angry and told him to leave me alone because I’m not interested in married men. He told me that he asked me out as a “friend”, not as a love interest. He said he really felt a connection when we met and wanted to stay in touch to get to know me better. I agreed to be his friend but only if he told his wife about me.
He said he would. He added me on facebook but we didn’t see each other again for 4 months and we kind of lost touch. About 4 months later, he messaged me on FB. We chatted all night and this became a regular thing during the weekends we will spend all night chatting with each other. This went on for a few months.
One day he blocked me on FB and messaged me on another FB account telling me that his wife saw our messages together and got annoyed so he said he can’t talk to me anymore. I was fine with that & told him he needs to respect his wife’s wishes. We didn’t talk for two months after that until he called me and begged me to meet wtih him.. He said it was important so I reluctantly agreed to meet with him. He told me he was in love with me and that he wanted to leave his wife for me. I told him I wasn’t interested because I am not a homewrecker. I said that if I date him he will probably cheat on me too one day and then leave me for someone else. He said its not true. He said that him and his wife have grown apart and have too many issues so he wants to leave her.
Now my problem is that I really really have strong feelings for him but I don’t want to “steal” someone’s husband and I’m worried that one day he will do to same thing to me as he did to his wife. Please advise.

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