Hello house, top of the morning to you all. Please I have a pending matter in my house presently, my wife has a girl living with us, this girl has been living with us since she was 16 and now she’s 25 and a man came to ask for her hand in marriage but my wife said no. This girl is an orphan, she’s from my wife’s village and she has been a good girl, very hardworking and very diligent, and my wife has gotten so used to her, she took her in as a sister but what she’s doing now is bad because she’s saying she wants our first born to clock 16 before she can let go of the girl and our first born is still 8 so that is extra 8 years, by then the girl would be 33 and no man would ever wait that long for any woman not even if the girl is Obasanjo’s daughter. I have been begging my wife since to let her go but she’s being adamant, it’s been 6 months now that her husband to be has come to seek her hand and my wife won’t let her go. Now what she’s even doing that is annoying me more i that she is telling the girl bad things about marriage to scare her from getting married, she’s telling her of all the fights we have and the causes of all our arguments to the point that she even added her on Mamalette and she would be gisting her of all the scary marriage stories here. The girl is scared out of her mind, she came to meet me last night and she said, she thinks she would she would wait some more to make my wife happy but I can’t have it but my hands are tied because she brought in the girl. Please house, kindly help me talk to my wife here. I’m sure she would read all your comments. Thank you and sorry for the long write up.

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