My first love and I lost contact in 2004 when I left Nigeria. I was hus first love too. In 2011 we regained contact through Facebook, but I was in a serious relationship and he wasn't, so I told him it couldn't work. I got married in 2012 and had a baby in 2014. He also got married in 2012, but before he got married, he asked for my permission to move on, which I said yes to, because I was obviously married. He got married to his ex girlfriend's friend. She didn't seduce him, but he said she was a good girl and he liked her and she was wife material. They have 2 kids now. My husband died in 2014 and I'm in my late 20s and will obviously be getting married again at some point. He and I deleted each other from Facebook, so even when I lost my husband, I didn't contact him until he contacted me Christmas of 2016. He said he didn't love hus wife and she doesn't love him either, that anytime they fight, she tells him she wouldn't have married him if he didn't have money. He wants me back and even though I still have feelings for him, I can't destroy another woman's home. He keeps telling me, if I don't he will find another wife to marry anyway, so it's not me, he is just done with her. Now I'm torn, because it is against my principles, but on the other hand, he doesn't love her and will be leaving her anyway. All his siblings are in support, because we're family friends, we all know each other and they are all happy and wish us well. What should I do?

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