Hello everyone, my story is a bit complicated but I beg of you all not to judge me, all I need is advice from you all. I was having an affair with my colleague. We are both married and affair was going on fine till we both agreed to put a stop to the affair and make it official so we purposely let both our spouse know about it. His wife left him and I left my husband too and we were together for real. I met his parents and siblings after he told them his wife left him for another man, they supported that we moved on with our lives. Non of us got divorced yet, we just separated from both of our spouse since then and our affair seems to be accepted…after a year of staying together, we relocated to Ibadan and we started a new life there. All our new colleagues identified us as husband and wife. Occasionally, we visit our family on our own in Abuja. Fast forward to our 3rd year together, his wife suddenly called and told him she wanted a divorce and he started begging her to stay married to him. I understand it was for the sake of his children, but it was sad how he Suddenly ran out of love for me. He quickly changed and wanted privacy from me. He was texting with her and calling her every day and night, trying to convince her back that he wanted the family and lied to her that we are no more together. I felt crushed. Everything shattered. I don’t know if should I stay or leave. Every time I talk with him. He would say he loves me. He said he still loves me. He said life isn’t the same without me. He wants to still be with me. I am scared I made the wrong decision because my hubby has moved on, he even has a child with another woman already. I don’t know what to do, please help me and I think I am still in love with my hubby.