I don't think anybody has gone through the kind of humiliation I went through in the hands of my hubby and his mother. I was married for 10 years to a man I loved so much until our separation. Initially, he cared for me and our daughter but things changed. I remember one day, we went to visit his elder brother – my baby was barely 2 months old then. As we were leaving that evening, a car splashed mud on me and my baby. My hubby was so furious and promised he would buy a car soon and give to me, so we never experience such embarrassment again. Few months later, he bought a car but never allowed me nor our daughter get in it, saying he was not the first father in Lagos and can’t afford to have his car always ridden with baby fragrance. We were practically banned from joining him in the car. Sometimes, I would be walking with my baby while hubby drives past us. Unbelievable, right?  He soon began hitting me because of babes and sent me packing more than twice. However, each time, he would come back crawling on his kneels and I would go back home. His siblings would threaten to beat me up while his mum would call severally, saying she would never forgive me. When I ask what my crime was, she would have nothing to say. She later got my hubby a new wife but couple of months later, hubby had a fight with her (his mum) and told me about the wife. He has since then be asking me to come back, that we should make it work. The truth is, since he left me, I haven't met anybody else. I have been raising our child alone and it is not easy being a single mom and at the same time, I know my ex hubby is a jerk and I shouldn't go back to him but I am really confused. Please mamas in the house, what should I do?

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