Good evening to all able mamas! As I am typing this I am weeping, actually I read a post tonight about a woman that wanted to leave his husband due to abusive marriage and I was crying and controlling myself and I was asking myself why is this to women!!! Let me start with my own story, I got married 4 years back and before my wedding day the pastor cancelled the wedding and I was told I can’t do it in the church (I was not pregnant) but I was told this man is not responsible that he is pretending, after on I did the wedding & 4 days after I moved with him in his family house, he fought me all because I was playing with him at the sitting room and he doesn’t respond because he went to the office 4 days after our wedding and the boss gave him 2 weeks and he went 4 days after, nothing like honey moon and on that day he called me names and even wanted to beat me and people told him to beg me that he has offended me, I did not know that was the beginning. This Man Is A mummy’s Boy That Always Depend On Her Cos He Is The Only Male Child,My First I Was Starved My People Will Be Preaching For Me That Things Will Get Better My People I Would Have Been Dead When I Gave Birth To My 1st Child Through CS But God Saved Me&This Is The Man That Did Not Appreciate Me&We Beat Me Severally &Still Say Badly Things About Me To His People,I Did Not Know He Was Pretending To Me&After My 1st Child Have Seen His Bad Character & When You See Him Outside He Will Behave Kindly To You Not Knowing””'”‘”‘”‘!Did You Know Whenever I Asked Of What We Will Eat He Will Shout at Me Talk To Me Anyhow We Always Fight& I Use To Respect Him,Cooked For Him etc & He Will Not Have Sex With Me For Months But This Marriage As Turned To Something Else For Me Because I Never Thought It Will Happened To Me Cos Have Tried To Let It Work Have Begged Him A lot Then That He Should Allow Peace To Reign&The More I Keep Begging The More He Talked To Me Any How But Latter I Changed And Not Begging Him Again,The Way Am See Things I Don’t See Future In Him We Have Not Been Doing Like Couples He Will Do This On His Cos He Prefer Discussing With His Family Rather Than Discussing With Me,Nothing Like Happiness Since The Day I Got Married To Him Till This Moment I Use To Cry A lot Because Have Not Been Loved Am Not Happy Till Now Cos I Saw So Many Things In Him And I Tried To Change Him But Will Not Agree Rather Showing Me Love He Will Treat Me Like A Trash,He Has Tried So Many To Kill Me There Was A Day We Got Into Fight Because I Asked Him To Give Me Money For Antenatal & Was Money In His Hand But He Refused To Give Me and Told Me He Will Beat Me That My Face Got Broked And I Went To The Hospital For Stitches And He Did Not Follow Me But I Thank God For My Face Cos I Did Not Know How The Stitches Covered Up,He Begged Me But Thinking It Will Stop NO It Keeping On Worsen&There Was A Day He Would Have Strangled Me To Death If Not My Baby That Was Crying Or A Day He Pushed Me And They Thought I Was Dead,This Me Did Alot For Me But I Thank God He Did His Miraculous Work In My Life I Don’t Have To Look Unto Him Before I Can Eat Anymore,I Didn’t Know I Was Pregnant With My Second Child Cos We Did Not Use To Have Sex All The Cos I Will Be The One To Go And Meet Him For Sex But I Stopped It Not Knowing I Was Pregnant I Went To Him And He Told Me He Is Not Responsible For I Was Annoyed That Day Cos He Disgraced Me And Have Had Sex With Any Man Since Have Known Him Despite His Attitude This Thing Is Getting To Much And Unbearable Thinking Of leaving Him Cos I Can’t Cope Anymore Am Capable Of Taking Care Of Myself Am Earning More Than 100k In A Month Now His Soo Jeolous About Me

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