I need advise on an issue bothering me. Me and my fiancé are about to settle down next month. He is a very nice fellow and I love him. He told me he has a girlfriend that stays with him but he won’t marry her even though she has a daughter for him. I asked him why, he told me that sometimes ago when he was still schooling he used to travel to neighboring town to do manual jobs like helping people on their farms to sustain himself and her through school. So during those times he was catering for her, she was busy cheating on him on which he caught her on several occasion. So he vowed never to marry her and he told her but she still remained in his house. They started having disagreement and fight in the house as he too started going out with other girls in retaliation. After some time she was diagnosed with fibroid. She asked him to give her 30k for the operation which he gave her but during the weekend before the operation her mum fell down in the church. She was rushed to hospital and d doc requested for 29k to operate her. She decided to use the money given to her for her mum operation. So the mum survived. She came back and asked the guy to give her another 30k since she used the other money for her mum. He asked her to give him till d next month as he can’t raise the money immediately. She was operated at last after a month. After the operation the doc told him that they should put their hope in God as only him can give them another child. Since then she stop seeing her period. She has not given him peace since then as she blamed him for not bringing money early enough which made the fibroid affect her to the extent that she can’t procreate any longer. He started going home by 11pm but still she is awake to welcome him with abuse and fight cursing him in the middle of the night, Tearing his shirt outside, injuring him etc even though they stay in his family compound anytime they have a fight the mum only encourage him to bear with her saying that he didn’t heed her when he asked him not to bring the lady in and since they have spent like seven yrs together he should marry her properly and they should just try to understand themselves Last year December she used scissors to shred his clothes, cut his outing shoes and stabbed him at the back .since then, he left the house and now stays in town. Since he is settling down next month he wants to introduce me to his mother which he told his mum but she said she aint interested in knowing me and the uncle said he has to marry the baby mama. He has bluntly refused. The issue now is should I go ahead even though we are having a registry marriage and his aunts and brothers are in support or should I let go

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