Hello everybody. Thanks for taking your time to read. I really need your advice please. I am a man in genuine need of help. I have been seeing a girl for some months now but she already has a child and the child is a year old. The thing is this lady is so hot that I still wonder what she sees in me, I have always had self esteem issues & anxiety. She didn't mind this, she is always there for me and all but I still find it hard to believe she likes me, so last month, I stopped calling her often, I stopped texting also, I just wanted to see if she really liked me and she surprised me. The more I kept drawing away from her, the more she kept coming close to me. I told my best friend about her and he said if that is the case that it means she is desperate, that she needs someone to be her husband and her son's father. I don't want to believe my friend but I think he has a point because this lady is too good, I haven't seen one fault in her which is very scary because I want to know what I am dealing with. I love her a lot and would like to marry her but I don't want her to marry me out of desperation, I want her to marry me because she really loves me but how do I know if she loves me. So I called her up and asked her what she sees in me and she said she doesn't even know but she knows she adores me. I was happy with her response and I ended the call only for her to send me a text later that she is not in a good place & she doesn't want a relationship, that she would understand if I didn't want contact her. It's been 2 weeks now and I haven't heard from her. I miss her, now my dilemma is do I text her, I want to text as I really like her & let her know I'm still thinking of her. I am very confused because I don't want to seem like a pest. Please kindly advise me.

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