Mamalettes please I need your opinion on this, I don’t want this guy to come and scatter everything on my wedding day.
 
I dated the guy for 4 years plus, at first I was in love with him but he was too possessive and clingy. I was in 100 level when I met him so I wanted to explore, every time I cheat on him, he gets aggressive and tries to conquer me by having intercourse with me harshly or beating me. Beside being possessive and aggressive, this guy is the best a woman can ask for, caring, loyal, faithful and doesn’t mind inconveniencing himself just to please me.
 
But I just didn’t love him enough to stick to him and not cheat on him, each time he finds out I cheated on him, I’ll suggest we break up but he won’t allow for it.
 
I felt it’s not normal for him to know I’m cheating on him and still not break up with me. I was afraid he’ll maltreat me when we marry, his aggressiveness also scared me. So gradually, I let go of him after over 4 years of dating.
 
He kept calling everybody and trying to get me back, he still calls me now and he’s still hoping we can get back together.
 
Now I met someone else and we’re planning to get married by June but people said I shouldn’t tell him because he’s aggressive enough to come and scatter the event.
 
My problem is, a friend of his that’s also a friend of mine has found out through someone and might tell him.
 
Should I just tell him instead of him finding out himself and coming to scatter my wedding ceremony out of anger?

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