Mamas thank you for all your wonderful advice so far. I am a 24 years old single lady, I am working and doing fine for myself but all the guys have been meeting seem to be intimidated by my little achievement until recently when I met this new guy. He is 30 years old, has a good job, God fearing, honest, patient and handsome. I have hung out a couple of time and I think I like him already and would want to settle down with him.
Last night, he called me and told me that he likes me a lot and that he doesn't want to start a relationship on a lie. He said that last year a girl told him she was pregnant for him. He said he doesn't like the girl and he doesn't see himself settling down with her because she's a liar and a user. He said the girl is his sister's friend and that she came to stay with him and his sister for a week and that one thing led to another he made love to her but they never dated and it was just once they made love and he used protection. He said the girl left their house afterwards and came back a month later to tell him she was pregnant. He said it was then his sister told him that the girl told her the moment her friend came into his house and saw him, she had been telling her how she's going to marry her brother, how she is going to leave in the house with him, how handsome and hardworking he is. He said it was then he knew he had entered a trap, he later found out that the girl is still in school, she was advised to withdraw in her first uni because she wasn't bright enough. Now she's in another university and she's pregnant in her 2nd year. He said he's waiting for her to give birth and they can run a paternity test to know if the child is and if the child isn't, he can't father another man's child but if it's is he would accept full responsibility and his mom would take care of the child but he doesn't want to have anything to do with such a deceptive girl.
I don't know what to do, I like him a lot and he seems really honest, he said if I can't date him because of the drama in his life that he would understand, that he has not had a girlfriend in almost 5 years till this baby mama drama, and he just feels safe with me and he really likes me a lot. Mamas please what should I believe? Should I date him, should I take more time to study and know him better. What should I do? Please help me

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